When it comes to men, approaching women is not that easy for us in general.
In fact, there are some who will do everything just to not have to deal with approaching a woman.
This is because they feel that they will only be turned down or embarrassed.
Alternatively there are guys on the other spectrum who try to use the worst pick up lines, and approach women the wrong way, but yet they still get results.
Why is this the case?
Well it’s because you need to learn how to approach a woman in the RIGHT way.
So what’s the RIGHT way to approach women?
When approaching women in public places, a lot of men always end up doing the wrong things. This is because they get confused with how to approach and do not distinguish between day time and night time approaches. Approaching a woman inside a club or bar is never the same when you approach someone in a public place like a mall, street, etc. You won’t get the same results when you approach a woman in these public places by using the same strategy.
Why?
Women who go to bars and clubs EXPECT to be approached. But when they are out on the busy streets, or having coffee, or visiting the mall, they don’t expect to be hit on.
So that’s the difference.
Women do NOT expect to be hit on during the day.
This is where you have the advantage, if you come across using the right method.
The following are 3 things that you must know when approaching a woman in public during the day:
1. You have to have a “real reason” to be around there
Women like to think that when they meet a man it just happened naturally. So what do you need to do in order to make this happen?
Just pretend that you actually have a real reason to be there. For example, you can ask for directions and when she answers you can say “wow, I actually didn’t realise that you were so helpful, I’m new to this place and I need to make friends, why don’t I buy you a coffee to say thanks”.
2. Be EXTRA friendly with confident body language
Did you know that most men have a really aggressive look if they are not smiling? This is great if you’re trying to avoid people handing you flyers, but it’s scary for women you want to approach. Also, make sure you display confident yet friendly body language. You have to be that much more friendlier to girls you want to meet during the day. In a club you can be kind of cool and get away with it. During the day that doesn’t work.
3. Never start talking about sexual things to a woman when in public
I know this is a bit obvious, but a lot of guys seem to be under the misguided impression that if they can be confident and are charming then what they say doesn’t matter. Yes, it DOES matter. If you start talking about sex and how hot or pretty you think she is straight off the bat, you’re going to signal to her that you just want her for one thing. SEX!
4. Don’t linger for too long
Once you start the conversation going for a little while, like 30 seconds or after 3 questions (whatever is enough to build some sort of rapport) you NEED to tell her that you’re a busy person and that you have to get out of there. But, since you enjoyed your interaction with her you want to touch base with her in the future. I advise you adding her as a Facebook friend for further chats, it’s normally a lot easier to get a girls Facebook information than her number. But if you have the skills, go for the number close.
Now these are 4 tips I use when I approach women in public during the day. Of course not every approach will be successful, but I’m sure if you use my tips you’ll get more success than you did in the past.
That’s what matters!
So go out and start approaching the attractive women that you really want to meet today!
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