Facebook is the hottest thing to hit the dating scene since the internet revolution back in the 90s.
So if you’re not on Facebook looking to hit on girls, and you’re a single guy, then seriously you need to get on there.
But before you do, make sure you don’t become another Facebook loser and scare women away with your desperateness. I know A LOT of guys think that they are actually picking up women on Facebook, but in reality they are just signalling to the world that they are a loser.
Here are some great tips on how to pickup girls on Facebook:
Create an Attractive Profile
Create a nice-looking profile. In making your own profile, be positive and unique. As much as possible, make it interesting so readers will find it fun and enjoyable to read. Do not describe yourself like this “I am a funny but caring guy”. This line sounds really dull and boring. Be creative. Instead of using such line, make it just like this “If happiness is an ocean, I would be very glad to sail it forever”. This line does not only attract opposite sex but also shows how unique you are. This tip is just one of the essential online dating tips exclusively designed for men.
Make sure you show your intelligence and humour in a way that is “girl friendly” and doesn’t come across as being “trying too hard”.
Don’t be an attention whore
Do not use any negative lines like “I am sad” or “Since I was dumped by my ex girlfriend, I started not to believe in true love”. Negative lines simply show that you are not confident about yourself.
Instead of getting girls to feel sorry for you and start wanting to talk to you, it tells women that you’re a guy who can’t get over his ex and needs to display to the world how sad and emotional he is.
In other words, you’re being a big baby and crying about it.
Do not do this to get attention. In fact, leave anything and everything negative OFF your profile. You don’t want to let other people have the impression that you’re a guy with emotional issues.
Update your profile DAILY – NOT every 5 minutes
It is good to keep your profile updated on a daily basis. Why? This shows girls that you’re an active player and if they post on your wall, they will get a response. You may also want to add unique and funny status updates about what is on your mind or what keeps you busy regularly so you can draw more attention from opposite sex. However, a very important note to keep in mind is that you do NOT update your profile every 5 minutes. This just makes you look like an attention whore with nothing better to do with your life.
Be a sexy talker
There are actually a lot of ways to start a good conversation with opposite sex. You can begin your conversation by asking a few questions like “where did you get that wonderful smile?” or “I adore your taste in music”. However, before you say these things, make sure you come up with something that will really get her attention to want to message you back. I advise you sending a personalise message to her that shows her you’ve read her profile and you’re making a comment about it. Bear in mind that you need to think of something that can attract the attention of the girl to like your common interest.
But, how do you know what her interests are? All you have to do is to visit their facebook profile and try to gather relevant information about their likes and dislikes.
Be true to yourself. If you do not like her taste of music, don’t say “I really love your taste of music” just because she’s hot. Instead of saying that, try to emphasize your point by saying, “You may also want to listen to house music, you will definitely love it”. What you’re doing is showing her that you’ve checked out her profile and your making relevant comments.
Update Your Profile with Up-to-date Photos
Let’s face it. We’ll all shallow and we only want to talk to people that we find attractive. This is the same when it comes to Facebook. So I can understand why you want to put up old photos of yourself. However, if your old photos look nothing like you and make you look 10 times better than you are, then what you’re actually doing is setting up a false expectation in the minds of the girls you’re chatting with. As soon as you meet up with her in real life and she sees Shrek instead of the super sexy photo of you that you photoshopped on Facebook, she won’t be impressed.
I hope you’ve enjoyed my tips about how to pickup girls on Facebook. Remember to make sure that you follow these tips and they should be seen more as RULES than tips. Why? Because if you break them, your chances of success seriously drop big time.
So good luck Facebook flirting!
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